Holidays and Attachment Triggers

Holidays often bring up attachment issues as they emphasize the importance of connection and relationships. For individuals with anxious attachment styles, the fear of abandonment can intensify during these times, leading to heightened anxiety and a strong desire for reassurance from loved ones. On the other hand, those with avoidant attachment styles may feel overwhelmed by the increased social demands and may retreat further, potentially creating distance in their relationships. Attachment issues can manifest as increased insecurity, jealousy, or difficulty managing emotions, as the holiday season highlights the need for emotional connection and support, which may challenge the established patterns of attachment in one's relationships. Ultimately, the holiday season can serve as a magnifying glass, exposing and intensifying attachment-related issues for individuals, requiring self-awareness and effective coping strategies to navigate these challenges.

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Mary Barbour is an experienced licensed therapist who offers a compassionate, direct, and personalized approach to individual and couples counseling. With the belief that healthy relationships are based on secure attachment, Mary helps clients identify, explore, and repair insecure attachment patterns, create meaningful connections, and deepen their connection to themselves and others. Mary integrates her formal training of several modalities - Internal Family Systems (IFS), EMDR, Advanced Experiential Dynamic Psychotherapy (AEDP), and Somatic therapy - to effectively guide her clients to places of healing. Mary also holds space for deeper exploration of non-ordinary states of consciousness utilizing the power of Ketamine Assisted Psychotherapy to heal trauma. Find out more about Mary and how she works at marybtherapy.com.

  

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